Hypnotic Seduction

Got your attention didn't I?

I have a wonderful video tape by Richard Bandler called "Flirting." I will review it here soon and in time I'll be selling it on ebay or here first. In fact I have a few hypnosis books and products by other people that I'll be selling on ebay. I'll mention each of them and review them before selling them and people can but it here or when I put it on ebay then you can get it there.

I'll also do some research on hypnotic seduction and post links and articles here. As I have written a few times this web site is a work in progress.

Note: What's good for the goose is good for the gander. All the following techniques may be used by women as well as men, in sexual and non-sexual situations. To me seduction is selling yourself to another person and making a new friend.

OK first piece of research and it makes sense to me:

From the Speed Seduction newsletter, by Ross Jeffries (Ross Jeffries is supposed to be the master of speed seduction using hypnotic techniques): "For me, one of my favorite ways to meet women is to use some type of
humorous approach that gets her laughing. Why is this so important?

  1. Laughter sets a woman at ease and puts her off guard.
  2. Getting her laughing shows that you are confident and don't take the process of meeting her too seriously, unlike a desperate hard-up loser has to succeed. You are a fun guy, enjoying your exciting life and creating an opportunity for her to step into it and have some fun too if she plays her cards right.
  3. Humor is a way to test to see if she has a personality. If she is a mean, unhappy bitch, why bother?
  4. Most importantly, laughter gives you a behavioral response from her that you can mention, incorporate, and future pace into her imagination continuing to have fun with you later!

I write this makes sense. Laughter is the only universal (transcultural) human way of communicating and establishing rapport. When you smile and laugh together you like each other.

I was thinking today that a great big smile is the best way to establish rapport. Now, I do not mean a false smile, although a forced smile is better than no smile at all. More importantly I was thinking about something that Richard Bandler said in one of his seminars. Bandler said something like, "I wrote establish rapport if you need it and then lead but some people pace, pace, pace, pace...."

This is important in any kind of seduction (persuasion). By the if it its important to seduce strangers it is a hundred times more import nat to seduce (persuade) your loved ones.